Today I had the incredible pleasure of meeting up with an old friend and ex boyfriend! A man who came into my life 10 years ago and who, although we had our ups and downs, taught me more about myself than he will ever realise! Which got me thinking....we move through our lives on a daily basis and never realise as individuals just how much we change. Maybe it takes an outsider to make us open up, or to hold a mirror up so we can see ourselves through objective eyes! Its a strange feeling being classed as an adult, and i've written that before, but i think when you can look back on all you've been through and be able to smile about how it made you tougher and molded who you are as a person then I guess you're winning at life.
I'm not saying I have no regrets, because everyone does, but I am saying that I wouldn't change a thing. Ever single action of mine and decision I made, brought me to where I am today and led to meet new people and experience wonderful things that may otherwise never have happened. I feel extremely lucky to be able to share my thoughts and experiences with other people and to know and feel that I am truly loved by people in my life - something that should never be taken for granted!
In the run up to Christmas, although i'm not a religious person, I do feel that we should go that extra mile for loved ones in our lives. I don't mean expensive gifts or over the top displays of affection, but little things to make a difference in peoples lives and let them know they're loved. Unfortunately we are not infinite and our days are as always numbered, so make every day count! Spend it with loved ones and travel the world, fall in love - many many times, and then do it all over again! Its almost teh end of another chapter....make the next one jam packed!
Peace Out
xxxxxxx
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